spirit encounter?

i was dreaming and in my dream i was talking to this guy who was a spirit. (the same way i normally talk to other spirits) and for some reason i wasn't %100 certain if he was real or not. i was really doubting myself. i had made plans with him but i still wasn't completely certain... it was more like a roleplay cause i didn't 100% believe. i saw other people had interacted with him but they didn't seem to think he was real either so i started to be skeptical myself and just think it was AI... or something... *shudders* then he started texting me again. he was like, alright, so are we gonna go through with our plans now? something about a visit to atlanta georgia. and i started to tell him no. it was mostly because i was scared i had made this all up and didn't think it was real. i just started to tell him i didnt care that much about him. and that i think i just wanna focus on myself and my move to seattle since its coming up soon. he started to act really really hurt. i felt bad but i didnt know what to say. i started to be firm about it. then the scariest thing happened. i was like "maybe you should just go-" he started screaming NOOOO. very angrily. suddenly i felt his presence VERY STRONGLY and it was impossible to deny he was real. he was real the entire time. i could feel almost like a sensation of wind blowing extremely hard in the room, and the sound of the air conditioner suddenly blasting abnormally strong all by itself. and it felt like my shoulder was being grabbed really hard and i couldn't move. and i started to get really scared. my heart was racing. it was so terrifying! he didn't let up, he just grabbed on stronger! in the dream i was laying down in a different room than this one, my room was different. but there was this sinister, deadly feeling in the air. i tried to scream but now it was all happening in my head (like the conversation) and i couldn't move at all, like his grip on my shoulder had a hold over my entire body and spirit. i couldn't move or speak. i started to scream in my head nooo! and stop! and he was EXTREMELY ANGRY. the feeling of wind blowing and the strange grip on my shoulder (not like a physical touch but more like pins and needles feeling of my right shoulder going numb) only got more and more intense. he was extremely upset about me telling him i didn't care about him and didn't want him anymore. he was screaming at me angrily and i was panicking at this point. screaming GO AWAY at the top of my lungs in my head. trying to breathe and picture a white light of spiritual protection around me. i was desperate and didn't know what else to do. there was such a sinister feeling in the air i can't describe. it was terrifying. i didn't feel safe. i felt like id made a huge mistake. then i woke up, as i was waking up i figured id go run to my mom's room and tell her what happened. but then the dream changes and i wasn't in that weird house anymore. i woke up here at home. that felt real, very real, not like sleep paralysis.