Bad guy and an ex father…

Something about this bad guy (who was very tall) dumping all these fireworks and alcohol and stuff out and generally making a big mess and causing a big ruckus and my mom was just sitting there and I was afraid to try to stop him so I decided not to because I didn’t want my mom and the dogs to get hurt. But then we (me and my mom) suddenly looked at each other and I knew I needed to do something. So she got up to get away and I grabbed him around the neck and started clawing at his face thinking if he was gonna kill me at least I’d have some of his dna. I think I also thought she could get away. She was wearing her fancy gold coat. Then it all goes black. Then there’s a brief bit where I’m looking at my fingernails disturbed. I guess because of the dude’s skin or something? Then I’m outside of some area of his and I see him again but he’s remodeled this area and I’m still alive so I talk to him (and I think he’s mostly/entirely naked for some reason?) And so then I comment that he’s changed the space and he tells me about it. He’s says something like I got him pretty good because some of the scratches are still there and they’re kind of painful I explain why I scratched him and say I didn’t know how things were gonna go so I thought at least they’d find my killer with the skin under my fingernails He says something like that’s smart or it makes sense or something We talk a bit more and he shows me more of his space The dream ends And another begins I’m outside in the sun with someone who is supposed to be my father (who looked like him in parts of the dream and in other parts was this nice black guy) and two girls who are supposed to be his other kids (they’re around my age) We’re hanging out and joking around and I’m somewhat cautiously optimistic that this could be alright My mom is in a car up the hill just a bit but she looks younger and less tired and so many other things Then it’s the end of the dream and I think something like “would I be gender fluid if I had had a dad?” Then I think to myself I would have and the dream ends.